Some singles don’t bother to look for a spouse, believing God will bring the person to them, while others are forever on a feverish search for one, fearing they may miss him or her.There should be a balance, as we remember that God is perfectly loving (Ephesians ; 1 John -18) and perfectly sovereign over every situation, desire and need (Psalm 1; Romans -39).
Some of these people are trying to con the men and women they meet.
Always begin by meeting the person in a public place—never allow them to drive you anywhere or take you somewhere where you will be alone.
But others believe they are limited in the people they meet because of their profession, the size of their city, or the nature of their activities.
For these people, it may be wise to consider other methods.
Question: "Should a Christian use a Christian dating service to find a spouse?
" Answer: The Bible doesn’t talk about Christian dating services.
Once we have these common struggles sorted out, we can begin to pursue a woman, or be pursued by a man, with an eye towards marriage.
As in all decisions, we should ask God to direct us clearly.
In fact it doesn’t even tell us how to “date” or “court,” whichever we call the process we use to get to know a potential mate.
In the Bible times, these did not exist in the same form that we see them today.
e Harmony requires that members proceed through several “steps” of communication before they are allowed to e-mail and exchange phone numbers. While it is easy to meet new people on all of the websites, anyone trying out internet dating must be very careful.